Veteran Nollywood actor, Yemi Ayebo popularly often called Yemi my lover, has shared his ideas on marriage and the way he runs his residence.
Speaking in an interview with Punch, the actor who mentioned he acquired married at 38 defined the significance of being financially steady earlier than venturing into marriage.
He argued that girls of the brand new era will not be prepared to stick with a person who doesn’t have the funds for to cater for them.
Speaking additional on chores in his residence, Ayebo defined that he doesn’t assist with house responsibilities as a result of it’s forbidden in his household. He nevertheless acknowledged that he helped his spouse in planting crops reminiscent of yams and greens so she wouldn’t go far to buy them.
He additionally mentioned that he couldn’t go to the market and purchase stuff for his spouse as a result of he’s a celeb and thugs would possibly attempt to hurt him if he’s seen available in the market.
He mentioned:
“In the household, I come from, it’s not permitted.
“How can I be serving to my spouse with chores? For what? The solely factor I did was that I plant greens behind the home as a result of I like greens. I water them within the morning and night time. I additionally planted yam and pepper. At least, with that, I imagine that I have supported her in order that she wouldn’t must go far earlier than getting a few of these objects.
“I am a celebrity, so, they need to treat me as a king; someone that has a name is like a king. Just like when you asked me if I assist with chores, someone that is a celebrity should not be the one going to the market and all that. People will then see me in the market and be saying, ‘Look, the celebrity came to buy something in the market,’ and before you blink, the area boys would have invaded me.”
Sharing his ideas on whether or not ladies ought to assist males financially within the residence, he argued that it’s the job of a girl to help her husband whereas additionally citing ladies overseas who make it some extent of responsibility to assist out their partner money-wise.
He mentioned: “That’s what they (women) are meant for. They are supposed to support their husbands in every aspect. You know what the Yoruba mean by oluranlowo (helper)? It’s a helper. The way it is abroad, when the bills are brought, the wife, who is also working, doesn’t expect the husband to pay everything while she keeps her money.”
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