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Shannon Beador is making ready to enter a wellness retreat after being left “devastated” by her latest cut up from John Janssen.
As each she and John talk about their breakup, which occurred in late November, only one week after The Real Housewives of Orange County season 17 wrapped manufacturing, Shannon, 58, revealed she was utterly “blindsided” when her now-ex-boyfriend knowledgeable her he was “done” with their three-and-a-half yr relationship.
“All I can do is repeat in my head what he said to me while we were filming,” Shannon instructed PEOPLE on January 11. “We were in a great place. But seven days later, when the cameras were down, it was a completely different story. He told me he was done with the relationship. And to hear what he said to me then was absolutely devastating.”
“I’ve never loved anyone more in my life,” she continued. “I was hopeful this was the man I was going to spend the rest of my life with. I wanted it to work out. I’ve never loved anyone like I’ve loved John. But clearly, he didn’t feel the same way.”
Meanwhile, in keeping with John, 59, his resolution to name it quits with Shannon was “super hard” and got here after he realized they wouldn’t go the gap.
“I’ve been in pain over it,” he insisted. “It’s sad because I love Shannon very much. I have loved her more deeply than any woman in my life. She’s one of a kind; so funny and generous and full of life and adventurous. We have a connection that’s unlike anything I’ve ever had. And I know that for as long as I live, I’ll never meet anyone like her again. But that doesn’t mean we’re right for each other for the rest of our lives.”
“It doesn’t make sense to be together if you don’t believe in it,” he added.
As for why he waited till RHOC season 17 had wrapped, John stated he didn’t wish to humiliate Shannon on digicam.
“The last thing I wanted to do is hurt Shannon, but I do think I did the right thing for the both of us,” he shared. “We’re two people who love each other very much, but love is not always enough. And while I know Shannon sees it as I’ve said things to her I never meant, I hope she’ll be able to see that there’s no bad person here. It’s two really good people who couldn’t make it work.”
Following their breakup, Shannon and John crossed paths at two University of Southern California video games. And, Shannon was “hopeful” they might “find a way forward.” However, being round each other “only made it harder” for each of them they usually’ve saved their distance ever since.
“The holidays were very, very difficult,” she confessed. “I couldn’t believe he wasn’t here, and there would be days I would just cry myself to sleep. But it’s a new year, and I’m ready for a fresh start.”
According to Shannon, she’s heading to the Golden Door well being and wellness retreat in Escondido, California, the place she visited in 2016 amid relationship turmoil with ex-husband David Beador, 58, the daddy of her three daughters, Sophie, 21, and twins Stella and Adeline, 18 (he additionally shares 23-month-old daughter Anna with spouse Lesley Beador.
“Being at the Golden Door the first time gave me clarity in my relationship and helped me find the strength to move forward on a path of independence. I have no doubt that returning will once again provide me with the perspective and healing to start this next chapter from a place of peace,” Shannon defined, including that she’ll return to the power later this month.
In closing, John stated he thinks “the world of Shannon” and needs “the best for her.”
“She deserves that,” he said.
The Real Housewives of Orange County season 17 is predicted to premiere on Bravo someday later this yr.
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