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Tatum O’Neal, and additionally her brother, Griffin.
Tatum was born in November 1963 to actors Ryan O’Neal and Joanna Moore. Both of her dad and mom have been addicts, and after they divorced in 1967, Tatum and Griffin, a 12 months youthful, remained with their mom. But Moore was so hopelessly addicted that she severely uncared for her youngsters, typically not even feeding them, and leaving them dwelling alone for prolonged intervals of time. Tatum recalled an event on which she and Griffin, left dwelling alone, resorted to consuming pet food as a result of they have been so hungry and there was no meals. Moore additionally acquired a new boyfriend who severely beat Tatum, and she and Griffin weren’t enrolled in class, nor have been they ever taken to the physician or dentist.
In 1970, the abuse and neglect lastly brought on Tatum and Griffin to be taken away from their mom by the authorities, and they have been despatched to stay with their father, the place they hoped issues would get higher.
But Ryan had his personal dependancy, in addition to a mood. He costarred with Tatum within the 1973 movie Paper Moon, however nine-year-old Tatum’s efficiency outshined her father’s, making him jealous and resentful of his daughter. When it was introduced that Tatum had been nominated for an Oscar, Ryan punched his little one within the face. Instead of inspiring delight, Tatum has mentioned that her success in Paper Moon “destroyed” her relationship together with her father, who could not stand the truth that she had upstaged him. Tatum would win the Oscar — she’s nonetheless the youngest-ever winner of a aggressive performing Oscar — however neither of her dad and mom attended the ceremony.
Ryan frequently bodily, verbally, and emotionally abused his youngsters. He additionally took Tatum to events at locations such because the Playboy mansion, and brazenly did medicine round his children. His drug supplier sexually assaulted Tatum when she was a teenager, and when Griffin was 11, he says his father pressured him to do cocaine with him. (Ryan additionally allegedly knocked out two of Griffin’s enamel when he was a teenager.)
Tatum’s publicity and quick access to medicine and alcohol made her a full-blown addict earlier than she even turned 18, which profoundly affected her performing profession, and she has struggled with dependancy ever since.
She married tennis professional John McEnroe in 1986, when she was 22, and they had three youngsters, Emily, Sean, and Kevin. O’Neal and McEnroe have each admitted to utilizing medicine closely throughout their marriage. McEnroe was additionally legendary for his risky conduct on the tennis courtroom, and that volatility reportedly spilled over into his private life. After an alleged incident wherein he hit and kicked Tatum, the 2 separated and then divorced.
Following the divorce, Tatum’s drug use escalated, and she turned hooked on heroin. Her drug use brought on her to lose custody of her youngsters to McEnroe in 1998 — not so completely different from her personal childhood story. History repeats itself. The lack of her youngsters led Tatum to get clear, and she finally regained partial custody, however she relapsed once more in 2008, and made headlines when she was arrested for possession of crack cocaine.
The 12 months after that, Tatum attended her stepmother Farrah Fawcett’s funeral, at which her estranged father, not recognizing her, really tried to hit on her.
Despite all the pieces her father put her via, Tatum, as soon as once more clear and sober, determined to attempt to reconcile with Ryan in 2011. It did not final. Griffin (who retired from performing in 1992) has not spoken to his father, whom he calls a “narcissistic psychopath”, since Ryan was arrested for capturing at him in 2007, and right now, he says that he and Tatum are additionally estranged.
In 2016, she was recognized with rheumatoid arthritis, which brought on extreme ache and restricted vary of movement in her palms, and she had to bear a number of surgical procedures on her backbone. Prescribed the drug methotrexate, she had a extreme response and developed continual pneumonia.
The one brilliant spot is that she reportedly stays drug-free, and right now has a good relationship together with her now-adult youngsters, whom she says are what saved her going via her current tribulations.
So… yeah. It’s fairly hard to prime Tatum O’Neal with regards to actors with hard lives.
(I can even word, tales like Tatum’s are only one motive to not assume that simply because somebody grew up wealthy and well-known means they had it straightforward or lived a charmed life. Rich and well-known individuals can abuse and neglect their youngsters simply as simply as any others.)
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