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Aubrey O’Day is telling all about her relationship and cut up from Paul “DJ Pauly D” Delvecchio.
Over 5 years after their cut up, and on the heels of the discharge of her new single, “Couple Goals,” which discusses their “toxic” relationship, the truth star and singer, previously of Danity Kane, regarded again on the therapeutic she endured after their public breakup and slammed the Jersey Shore solid member for his therapy of her throughout their short-lived romance.
“I went to Bali, I was able to heal and have such an incredible experience, and now I feel ready to talk a bit more about the things I’ve been through in life since everybody likes to report about them incorrectly,” Aubrey, 38, defined to TooFab on November 21.
According to Aubrey, she waited to launch a tune about her previous relationship with Pauly, 42, as a result of she didn’t need to converse out of ache or anger.
“I like to make sure I’m healed and that I’m coming from a place of just a genuine desire to share art, and that there is no bad intention involved because that would then be like corrupting my craft,” she revealed.
As followers might recall, Aubrey and Pauly met on E’s Famously Single and went on to look on Marriage Boot Camp: Reality Stars.
“I was kind of getting a character,” she shared, “Some people are very prepared with their character, and very prepared and aware of how they will present themselves to people, and those people usually make the most money, as I am sure you know. I find it a little harder to be that.”
“If I am going to speak from my most evolved self, I would say it was incredibly toxic,” Aubrey continued of their 2016 to 2017 relationship. “And I won’t point fingers because if you accept and receive that behavior and stay, there’s got to be something toxic and unhealthy wrong with you as well.”
Although Aubrey, who was briefly linked to Donald Trump, Jr., acknowledged that she and Pauly didn’t convey out the most effective in one another, she added that the potential “two-way street” was “two ways” as a result of “he was toxic, and I was allowing it.” And, in her new tune, she claims Pauly “never f-cking cared” and accuses him of lies.
Prior to her relationship with Pauly, Aubrey mentioned she was all the time somebody who “never sacrificed my work for a man.” However, as she received older and needed to begin a household, she started to compromise.
“[When] the compromise is always his way or no way or punishment, then it becomes a very toxic dynamic, and I don’t think I realized at the time how much I didn’t love myself or value or appreciate my gifts, and that I can do better than what my childhood taught me,” she recalled.
Aubrey additionally spoke of Pauly’s daughter, Amabella, 9, who she says in her tune referred to her as “Mom.”
“The relationship length was absolutely downplayed. The ending was downplayed. The person I was to his life and his daughter’s life was very downplayed,” she defined. “I felt a lot of anger at the time for being so discredited because I fell in love with the child, and I lost her in it, and that’s something that I had to heal from, and that’s something he probably is not operating with much compassion over.”
In the refrain of “Couple Goals,” Aubrey sings, “poor poor girl/you think you got the whole world/but he’s just giving you/the same show,” to herself, and likewise to Pauly future flames. However, when requested if she thinks Pauly’s girlfriend Nikki Hall, who has been seen alongside him on A Double Shot at Love, will hearken to the observe, she mentioned, “Absolutely not.”
“I think that what Pauly wants is the exact opposite of me, and if he’s dating the exact opposite of me, then maybe he’s found the right person. But I couldn’t spend my life living for and only about Pauly D, because I’m so much more,” she conclude
The music video for “Couple Goals,” which showcases a completely nude Aubrey, is at present accessible for uncensored viewing on her OnlyFans web page.
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