Ciara Says The Birth Of Her First Son With Future Made Her Decide To Break Up With Him!

Ciara is revealing how the start of her first son modified her perspective on lots of issues.

In case you want a refresher, the Goodies songstress began relationship rapper Future in 2012, and the pair obtained engaged shortly after. They welcomed their son, Future Zahir Wilburn Jr., into the world in 2014 — after which broke up when he was simply an toddler. She moved on that very same 12 months together with her present hubby Russell Wilson, whom she married in 2016, and had two extra kiddos — Sienna Princess and Win Harrison. Now, anticipating her fourth youngster, the 37-year-old is wanting again at how her children modified her life, notably her 9-year-old.

On Wednesday’s episode of Call Her Daddy, the Level Up singer defined how she felt she wanted a change in her life after her son was born:

“When you know you’re supposed to make a super-defined decision in your life, you know it from, like, the head to your feet and your soul and your body, you know it. It’s almost like your tastebuds change … You gotta also sometimes look in the mirror and reflect on yourself, like what are things that I could be doing differently in my life? I’m looking for a change but what does that mean?”

Speaking to podcast host Alex Cooper, she went on to explain how after having her child, she didn’t have room in her life to “play around” anymore:

“When you tired, you tired. We get tired and we don’t want to be tired all the time. I want joy. I want to make sure my cup is full. How am I living my life? I always say, ‘Don’t let anybody waste your time.’”

While talking on her relationship together with her husband Russell, she in contrast it to her poisonous relationship with Future:

“Me and Russ always talk about being equally yoked. For us, from day one, it was a healthy place and I thank God, because we always saw a lot of things the same way and I think that’s more than half the battle when you’re kind of aligned … It’s definitely like how someone talks to you, what’s their track record and sometimes too, listen, you see things how you see them and sometimes you do overlook things because of your perspective. A person can tell you everything, like ‘I’ve changed,’ and I’ve heard those stories before [and] I’ve heard that song before… Sometimes you tend to put the words before the action.”

Finishing up, she left everybody with a robust assertion: