Joe Jonas, Sophie Turner’s Split And Motherhood Tropes

In 2020, Sophie Turner graced the duvet of Elle with the headline, “Sophie Turner Is the Chill Best Friend You’ve Always Wanted.” In the piece, she spoke about her relationship with Joe Jonas whereas she was pregnant with their first youngster. Sophie mentioned that their first date came about in an area shitty bar, the place Joe “drank just as hard as the rest of us.”

Perhaps it’s simply my very own bias as somebody who was pretty detached to the Jonas Brothers, however the Sophie-Joe relationship undoubtedly boosted the latter’s cool ranking. After all, once they began courting, Sophie was nonetheless in Game of Thrones, one of the vital profitable exhibits of all time. Meanwhile, Joe’s band DNCE had launched its titular debut album, which peaked at 17 and spent simply 5 weeks on the Billboard 200 albums chart.

If you’ve stored up with the tabloids within the wake of their divorce, a really clear image of Sophie and Joe is being painted by sure media retailers. According to TMZ, she “likes to party, he likes to stay at home. They have very different lifestyles.” Page Six accused Sophie of “downing shots at a bar” at a reported wrap social gathering for a brand new TV present. Never thoughts that the 2 have repeatedly referred to Sophie because the homebody by way of the years.

Of course, there’s no cause to start out a media frenzy over a girl having a drink at a piece social gathering when the children are with their dad. The “sources” on these tales are extensively being attributed to Joe’s camp, which raises a query: Why have been individuals apparently so joyful to have Joe get pleasure from and profit from his companion’s coolness, solely to show round and use it towards her?

The experiences of two different well-known males this summer time could level us to a solution. In July, Jonah Hill’s alleged textual content messages together with his ex-girlfriend Sarah Brady went viral. In them, Jonah demanded that Sarah take away photos of her “ass in a thong” and mentioned that she couldn’t submit “sexual” photos in a “bathing suit” if she wished to stay in a relationship with him. However, in the beginning of their relationship, Sarah mentioned that he “flirted with [her] over the same surf pic he later called an ‘ass shot’…Like bro u know what u signed up for.” While Jonah’s alleged messages have been non-public and from him immediately, the tip objective — aiming to manage the general public picture of a girl — is similar.

Another man who involves thoughts is Darius Jackson, who tweeted in regards to the outfit his companion Keke Palmer wore to an Usher live performance. “It’s the outfit tho.. you a mom,” he wrote, later shaming her for exhibiting her “booty cheeks.” Even although Keke had worn sheer outfits earlier than, it was clear that Darius now not discovered it acceptable now that she was a mom. The same throughline could be seen within the tales about Sophie, though not from the horse’s mouth: Never thoughts that Joe posted a TikTookay of himself getting hammered on his thirty third birthday final 12 months — Sophie is a nasty mom for not being along with her children on a regular basis.

Although by way of totally different means, the makes an attempt to restrict every of those three girls to a specific model of womanhood haven’t been nicely acquired. Jonah and Darius have been extensively criticized, and the general public opinion pendulum appears to be very a lot swinging Sophie’s means; a fast foray onto both Twitter (sorry, X) or TikTookay will inform you as a lot. “I watched tall girl sophie turner act her ass off from 14 to 23 and grow into a clearly brilliant hilarious unproblematic woman and I’m supposed to take this Disney channel side bang smear campaign ANYWHERE but serious?” one viral tweet learn. “i’m actually very happy that we don’t let this kind of thing fly anymore,” another mentioned in response to the “likes to party” story.