Lady Reveals Reason She Turned Down Her Baby Daddy Proposal » Naijaloaded

A girl recognized as Zizipho, has revealed causes she stated no when her child daddy proposed to her. She said that she turned down his proposal due to his excessive monetary duties.

According to her, her child daddy who’s the breadwinner of the household, was nonetheless constructing his home, getting ready to go to greater establishment for the following 5-6 years whereas their child was solely 5 months outdated on the time.

She turned down the proposal as a result of the burden can be a lot on him and she or he doesn’t need him to commit suicide due to monetary stress.

“I dated my child dad for 8years. Best relationship of my life🥺. NEVER cheated. He proposed marriage early this yr. I declined. Guy moved on🤡it hurts, it hurts so unhealthy. I did talk my causes nd I assumed he understood kanti

Reasons:

He’s a breadwinner. Still in a technique of ending his residence, he’s going to varsity subsequent yr for 5-6yrs, subsequent yr there wont be an earnings, I requested him to atleast wait until I work. Our child was 5months then. I used to be solely considering for HIM😒. It was how I noticed issues🌚

Let me break this 8yrs. 4yrs we had been each in varsity, subsequent 4 it was residence constructing+ a child. If It was all in regards to the cash I might have left when he was constructing his residence nd broke. Or I might have accepted the proposal as a result of we speaking about an entire Dr to be right here.

Its about his psychological well being. How are you to juggle varsity, child,spouse,household? Nd the price of dwelling in varsity is manner excessive. I wasn’t going to place him via that. If he had stated “I got this” And clarify how I wouldn’t have declined.

I do have a level nd honors in psychology plz let’s not make this about me being a possible gold digger. Lets plan collectively. Let me work first nd carry the monetary burden….Crazy how males within the tweet are all mad however you’d be nonetheless mad when he hangs him self in Rez.

I used to be not mistaken for considering for him, he was my man who usually helped me via my selections aswell. We cnt all succumb to social stress on getting married after we dnt have our funds proper. He is mistaken for not speaking and never dwelling the connection when he noticed

It wasn’t what he wished. He dows have each proper to maneuver on. Given one other likelihood I might nonetheless say NO, give me time to work or present me a strong plan on the way you see this working. We struggled collectively and I used to be nonetheless prepared to however not as a spouse. U have an obligation in direction of a spouse

But you Dnt in direction of a gf. I keep residence, I eat residence, my child can get help at residence however as a spouse we wont get that luxurious, will probably be all on him, why y’all dnt get this 😂”.

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