Are Tom Sandoval and Tom Schwartz actually the fellows to speak about dishonest? Well, in a means the Vanderpump Rules stars have the correct expertise for the job…
Sandy has after all change into synonymous with dishonest due to Le Scandoval. It was revealed this March he’d carried on a seven-month affair behind longtime girlfriend Ariana Madix‘s back — with her co-star and “friend” Rachel Leviss. And the extent of Schwartz’s dishonest on Katie Maloney hasn’t been absolutely revealed. We do know he “strayed a few times.” And it ended badly for each!
So whereas we wouldn’t belief these guys with our sisters, they could truly be the correct selection to speak to guys who may cheat. Sort of a Scared Straight factor.
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On this week’s episode of Sandoval’s podcast Everybody Loves Tom, the pair determined to “give a PSA” to all their listeners, with Schwartz beginning off:
“If you’re unhappy in your relationship, if you feel lost or have experienced feelings for a coworker and it’s starting to escalate, don’t do it. Don’t do it. Just sit down and have that very uncomfortable conversation with your partner. Go to therapy, or just say it’s over. Don’t have a f**king affair.”
We imply… sure! Exactly proper! Sad he needed to undergo with affairs to study that, however not less than he’s right here now, on the opposite facet of it, sending the correct message!
Sandoval obtained actually private, expressing:
“One thing that really kept me hanging on was the insecurity I had in myself. I felt like. ‘Oh, my gosh, I can’t lose this other person because I’ll never get this.’ I had such an insecurity with myself that I felt if I let this go, it will never happen again.”
But even in the event you don’t assume you’ll discover the sort of stability or contentment you have already got, you’re higher off breaking apart and taking that danger, Sandy defined — as a result of “banking on that is a much safer bet than staying and doing and living in that.” Because residing that double life will destroy the connection AND you with it. He defined:
“You become an addict. You cling on to that fling that you had. That euphoria and that feeling you have when you’re with that person… You start to hide from the reality of the rest of your life. And you just become lost in that. Dude, I look back on that now and I’m like, ‘Holy s**t.’ And Schwartz and other people around me, they saw me and I was f**king fixated and barely present.”
At least he’s holding himself accountable now for his habits… proper?
What do YOU assume, Perezcious readers? Are the Toms doing job convincing people to not cheat??
[Image via Tom Sandoval/Instagram/MEGA/WENN.]
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